This is NOT a cliche. Finding those qualities within yourself first, is the key to manifesting them as your external experience.
Not only will it manifest in some meaningful form. You will also experience aspects of yourself in relationship, that you could not experience in any other way.
In other words, romance is more than merely the bliss of intimacy, it is a form of spiritual awakening.
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